• What is Smart Internet Dating About, Anyway???

    This blog is about about my ideas, experiences, and tools related to internet dating. I have been dating my girlfriend for 3-years now and we met over the internet. The funny thing is...she doesn't like to tell people that we met over the internet. :)

    I think there is still a stigma about finding someone over the internet. Almost like people think you are "less than" because you couldn't find someone in the "real world" and had to settle for the internet.

    At one time I also thought that way. However after the last several years I no longer feel that way.

    This blog is about

    * what I went through
    * what I learned
    * the tools I used
    * the results

    I will show you great ways to get started and make the most from your internet dating experience.

    I hope you enjoy!


  • Me!

    This is me! Whooohoooo

  • US!

    G-Friend and I

Sorry for Delay in Writing–Vacation

I am back from vacation and didn’t have much of a chance to write while I was on the road.  I will get back into the swing of things today.

You Don’t Look Like Your Profile Pic!!!

I can’t tell you the number of times I went on a date with someone I met online, only to find out they did not look like their profile pic. Continue reading

Bad First Date Ideas

There are many great ideas of things to do on a first date. This is a list of ideas for what not to do on a first date based on my experiences. Continue reading

Great First Date Ideas

For me, the idea of a first date is both exciting and a bit scary. What is someone going to think about me? What should I wear? What if we don’t have a good time? What if… Continue reading

Great Questions to Get to Know Someone

I found the journey of getting to know someone from an internet dating site very exciting, fun, and the pace really helped me stay focused on my feelings and getting to know the person first before the physical rendezvous. Yes, I just used the word rendezvous….lol Continue reading

Increase Your Internet Dating Marketability

The first part of increasing your dating marketability is to increase your awareness about yourself and how others perceive you. When I started dating over the internet I was on three sites. One that I would classify as a serious site, one casual dating site and one social networking site. (see my post on Internet Dating Sites for more information) Continue reading

Playing Hard to Get is Not as Much Fun As…

Playing Hard to Get is Not as Much Fun as… Continue reading


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